How to Find Community on Campus as a Graduate Student

Finding community on campus as a graduate student can be rewarding yet challenging. The rigors of academic life, especially the grind of a PhD, often leave little room for socializing, but building a network of supportive peers is crucial for both personal and professional balance. So, while we all know how much being in a community can benefit your soul, it can still be daunting for most of us (me included!).

Here are some tips to help you find your place on this expansive campus.

Embrace New Challenges

While it's natural to gravitate towards activities you enjoy, trying something new can lead to unexpectedly positive experiences.

I joined the molecular biology department’s summer softball team (nervously, after eight years removed from organized sports) not only because I love the game but also to connect with my peers in a non-academic setting. It provided a much-needed break from the lab, allowing me to enjoy play and camaraderie in a relaxed environment. The friendships I formed on the field carried over into our academic lives, creating a supportive and fun network in the halls of Lewis Thomas Lab.

Be Bold and Daring

Pushing your boundaries is a key aspect of personal growth. Join activities that challenge you.

I often find it difficult to relax, so I intentionally seek our spaces for rest such as registering for Monday Yoga and Breakfast, spearheaded by the Diversity Fellows in the Graduate School’s Access, Diversity, and Inclusion Office. These practices not only help me unwind but also introduce me to others who are seeking balance. Being daring and bold in your choices can open doors to new communities and perspectives.

Lean on Existing Resources

Remember, there's no need to reinvent the wheel. Many niche communities already exist on campus and are often eager to welcome new members.

Check out the close to 90 graduate student organizations, peruse the GSG Slack (which you can join using your Princeton email address), and the bulletins at graduate housing. Whether it’s a hobby club, a professional development group, or a cultural organization, these communities provide a ready-made support system and, most importantly, almost always serve food! Dive right in and take advantage of these resources. They offer a wealth of opportunities to meet people with similar interests and experiences—without additional personal labor to create the space.

Connect with Intention

Building a community as a graduate student does require effort and openness. But by embracing new challenges, being bold in your choices, and leveraging existing resources, you can find a supportive and enriching network on campus. So, step out of your comfort zone, try something new, and connect with the diverse and vibrant community around you.